The divine role of a man in their household has been watered down by society. Due to the breakdown in the family that has been a gradual process over decades, men have lost their identity, function and position in the family. The established role that the Lord created for men has become blurred lines in relation to the roles between husband and wife.
In the Garden of Eden, a man was created in His own image. In the image of God, He created him; male and female He created them. Gen 1:27 A woman was created as a helpmate. Gen 1:20-24
“Let him have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” Gen 1:26
The Lord established the man to be the head of the household. He was designed to lead with Godly wisdom, authority and integrity. He was not created to take advantage of his own strength and power to dominate but to lead with holiness, authority and dominion.
When women began to work outside of the home, it shifted the whole dynamics of the family structure and foundation. There was a constant power struggle between the husband and wife which applied pressure on the family not to mention societal and economic pressures. Not only was there a power struggle, but there was an identity crisis, character flaws and a lack of Biblical values and principles established to build a strong foundation. With the rise of inflation, it’s nearly impossible to have only one source of income in the household. This has added financial conflicts, tension, anxiety and increased stress levels in the family.
In Esphesian 5:25-27, it states, “25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
In an act of obedience and commitment, the foundation established by a strong family result in raising up disciplined and respectful children.
“Train up a child in which way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Prov 22:6
The importance of instruction, discipline, obedience and guidance in raising a child in their early stages of life reflects the Lord’s natural and spiritual design and intentions for the family.
The role of a father is one of great sacrifice and dedication to the family. He has great responsibility and many heavy burdens that should be released to the Lord to carry – not only financially but mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
As we honor Father’s Day, may we celebrate the strength and endurance of the men who lead with dignity, wisdom and strength in a world that is constantly changing and with the demands and pressures of life that are fierce to undertake.
Prayer for Our Fathers
For the fathers who have lost children, may the Lord comfort and strengthen you in your time of grief. May you receive courage, support and encouragement to fill the pain and void in your life.
May you walk with the hand of the Father who guides every step you take and every decision you make. May you desire a deeper relationship with the Lord to overcome every challenge, opposition or temptation that you face. May the hand of God shield and protect you and your family from any harm or danger as you walk in faith and lead with integrity, courage and tenacity in every area- family, business and life.. With trust and assurance, may you receive the provision and abundant blessings of peace, rest and grace to sustain you.
Forgiveness is often perceived as an act of kindness, a way of letting go of past grievances. Yet, forgiveness is much more than just a moral duty or a selfless gift to others. It is a powerful, life-changing practice that can bring profound freedom and healing. In a world filled with hurt, betrayal, and misunderstanding, forgiveness holds the key to restoring peace, not just with others, but within ourselves.
In this article, we will explore the strength of forgiveness, why it is essential, and how embracing it can lead us closer to true healing and freedom.
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The Power of Letting Go
At its core, forgiveness is the act of releasing the pain and anger caused by someone’s actions. When we forgive, we let go of the emotional burden that holds us hostage. Forgiveness is not about excusing the wrongs done to us or pretending that they never happened. Rather, it is about choosing to release the power that those wrongs hold over our lives.
When we carry grudges or dwell on offenses, we often end up hurting ourselves more than anyone else. Holding onto anger may feel justifiable in the moment, but over time, it can cloud our judgment, distort our relationships, and weigh down our spirits. Forgiveness breaks this cycle, allowing us to move forward with peace and a renewed sense of hope.
Many find that exploring deeper spiritual insights can support them on this journey. Resources like Spiritual Life Stories offer enriching perspectives on forgiveness and healing, guiding individuals to embrace this transformative practice with compassion and grace.
In Christianity, forgiveness is deeply rooted in the teachings of Jesus. One of the most well-known passages on forgiveness comes from the Lord’s Prayer, where Jesus instructs us to pray, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”(Matthew 6:12, KJV). Jesus calls us not only to seek forgiveness but to extend it to others as well.
The Bible teaches us that forgiveness is a central component of our relationship with God and with others. Jesus himself demonstrated ultimate forgiveness on the cross when, as he was being crucified, he said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”(Luke 23:34). This radical act of forgiveness shows us the depth of God’s grace and calls us to embody that same forgiveness in our lives.
Forgiveness is not easy, especially when the pain runs deep. But we are reminded in Scripture that God forgives us, and in turn, we are called to forgive others. In Ephesians 4:32, Paul writes, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Our forgiveness of others is a reflection of the grace we have received from God, and it is through this grace that we find healing.
When we choose forgiveness, we make a conscious decision to let go of the negativity that weighs on our hearts. Holding onto anger or resentment can create a toxic environment in our minds, leading to stress, bitterness, and even physical ailments. Studies have shown that unforgiveness can increase anxiety, depression, and blood pressure. On the other hand, when we forgive, we allow peace to replace bitterness, and healing to take place.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean that we forget the wrongs done to us or that we condone the harmful behavior. Rather, it means that we are choosing to release the hold that those negative feelings have over us. In this process, we find freedom—a freedom that allows us to move forward without the heavy burden of past pain.
The act of forgiving can feel like a weight has been lifted from our shoulders. It creates space for healing, not only in our hearts but in our relationships. It allows us to start fresh, without the emotional baggage of resentment dragging us down.
The Healing Process of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not always a one-time event. Sometimes, it takes time to truly forgive, especially when the hurt is deep or ongoing. The healing process is different for everyone, and it’s important to give ourselves the grace to go through it at our own pace.
Start by acknowledging the pain. It’s okay to feel hurt, angry, or betrayed. These emotions are valid, and it’s important to process them before we can truly forgive. Suppressing or ignoring our feelings only prolongs the healing process. But as we face the pain, we can begin to release it, one step at a time.
Remember that forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves, not just the person who hurt us. It’s about reclaiming our peace and our joy. Sometimes, forgiveness involves setting healthy boundaries or seeking reconciliation, but it always starts with the decision to let go of the need for revenge or justice and embrace grace instead.
One of the most powerful aspects of forgiveness is its ability to create a ripple effect. When we forgive, we not only heal ourselves, but we also contribute to healing those around us. Forgiveness has the power to mend broken relationships, restore trust, and create a culture of compassion and understanding.
When others see us choose forgiveness over bitterness, it can inspire them to do the same. Forgiveness encourages empathy, fosters unity, and promotes peace in our families, workplaces, and communities. It teaches us that, despite our differences and struggles, we are all human, and we all need grace.
The ripple effect of forgiveness extends beyond our immediate relationships. It impacts the way we interact with the world. When we walk in forgiveness, we choose to be agents of peace in a world that desperately needs it.
Forgiveness and Self-Forgiveness
While we often think about forgiveness in terms of others, it’s equally important to practice self-forgiveness. Many of us carry guilt and shame from our own mistakes and regrets. We may struggle to forgive ourselves, believing that we are unworthy of grace.
But the truth is, just as God forgives us, we are called to forgive ourselves. In 1 John 1:9, we are reminded, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Just as God forgives us, we must learn to forgive ourselves, releasing guilt and shame and embracing the freedom that comes from knowing we are forgiven.
Self-forgiveness is a powerful step toward healing and growth. It allows us to move forward in life with a sense of peace and purpose, knowing that we are not defined by our past mistakes but by the grace of God.
Forgiveness is not easy, but it is one of the most powerful tools we have for healing and freedom. It’s an act of strength, not weakness, and it allows us to break free from the chains of anger, resentment, and bitterness. Forgiveness brings peace to our hearts, healing to our relationships, and freedom to our souls.
When we choose to forgive, we walk in the footsteps of Christ, reflecting the grace and mercy that He extends to us each day. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves and those around us—a gift that has the power to transform lives, restore peace, and heal wounds.
So, if you are struggling with forgiveness, remember that it is a process, not a destination. Take it one step at a time, and know that in choosing forgiveness, you are walking in strength, healing, and the freedom that God desires for you.
May you take time to reflect on Jesus during this Resurrection season and on the act of unconditional love, grace and forgiveness that Jesus provides.
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ContributingAuthor Bio: Zeeva Usman is an experienced content manager at Christian Marketing. Experts and a content specialist at Salt of Heaven, where she uses her expertise to create impactful, faith-centered content. When she’s not crafting words, Zeeva finds joy in worshiping and singing for the Lord Jesus, drawing inspiration from her faith to encourage others.
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Jehoshaphat was the fourth king of Judah and reigned for 25 years (approximately from 870–848 BC). He was the son of King Asa and is remembered as one of Judah’s more righteous and reform-minded rulers. His leadership was characterized by religious revival, military readiness, and poorly aligned alliances.
King Jehoshaphat was diligently devoted to God and did not seek after Baal or idol worship. The Lord established him as the leader of Judah, and he was given riches and honor in abundance. He took delight in honoring the Lord and removed all the wooden images and idolatry from Judah. (2 Chron 17:1-6)
He was heavily dependent on God to lead him through crisis. He called for national prayer and fast when a coalition of armies came against him.
“We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”
2 Chronicles 20:12
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King Jehoshaphat was a strategic leader who strengthened Judah by building fortified cities and maintaining a strong army and establishing a system of judges rooted in justice and the fear of the Lord. 2 Chron 19:4-11
He also encouraged peace during a time of division, aiming to unify God’s people. His greatest mistake was building alliances with ungodly and wicked kings of Israel – King Ahab and Ahaziah which led to a failed trading excursion where all their work and ships were wrecked by the hand of God.
In times of uncertainty that we’re experiencing today, we can draw from the timeless lessons of Jehoshaphat—whether in business, ministry, or personal development there are nuggets of wisdom to glean from in his life and legacy.
Jehoshaphat left behind a bilateral legacy: a godly king who led spiritual revival and trusted God in crisis, but who compromised his faith in God by partnering with ungodly leaders. He is commended for walking in the ways of the Lord and striving to lead Judah in righteousness despite his poor choices.
“His heart was devoted to the ways of the Lord…”
2 Chronicles 17:6
What can we learn from Jehoshaphat?
Five Lessons and Application Principles
Lesson in Poor Judgment and Discernment
Despite being a godly man, Jehoshaphat sometimes displayed poor discernment in choosing partners, seemingly prioritizing unity or prosperity over righteousness.
2. Prioritize Alignment with God’s Vision
One of Jehoshaphat’s first moves as king was a spiritual one: he set his heart to seek the Lord. He didn’t begin with a political agenda, a marketing campaign, or a military strategy—he began by aligning his leadership with divine purpose.
Application Principle:
In a world filled with noise, trends, competition and pressure to chase quick wins, true leadership begins with clarity of purpose. Whether you’re leading your family, a business, a nonprofit, or a creative project, take time to anchor your mission.
Are my values aligned with something greater than success? Am I leading with integrity, vision, and spiritual clarity?
“The Lord was with Jehoshaphat because he followed the ways of his father David before him. He did not consult the Baals but sought the God of his father.”
2 Chronicles 17:3–4
3. Invest in Education and Empowerment
Jehoshaphat did something extraordinary: he sent out teachers to every city in Judah to instruct the people in the ways of God (2 Chronicles 17:7–9). He understood that he could not complete this task alone. He also understood that training well-informed and spiritually rooted people would lead to a strong kingdom mindset. There is strength in numbers.
Application Principle:
Great leaders don’t hoard knowledge- they cultivate and nurture it in others. A culture of empowerment leads to resilience and strength in uncertain times.
In your organization or community, how are you empowering others to grow? Are you mentoring, teaching, or creating systems that promote continuous learning?
4. Be Willing to Seek Counsel and Correction
One of Jehoshaphat’s leadership flaws was his alliance with King Ahab of Israel. When he was rebuked by the prophet Jehu (2 Chronicles 19:2–3), instead of resisting correction, Jehoshaphat humbled himself and made changes.
Application Principle:
Mistakes often happen, but wise leaders seek feedback and make adjustments. It’s ok to make mistakes. It’s one of our greatest teachers, however it’s important to surround yourself with people who will speak the truth—even when it’s uncomfortable. And when the truth hits hard, don’t shrink instead dissect it, reflect on it, embrace it and grow.
5. Lead with Faith and Loose Fear
Jehoshaphat prayed and fasted then sent worshippers ahead of the army—praising God in advance of the battle. God fought for Judah, and they experienced a miraculous victory.
Application Principle:
Due to the current instability in these times—economic shifts, technological disruption, social, political and cultural changes, lead with faith. Don’t rush into battle without clarity. Take time to pause, reflect, pray, and strategize. Sometimes, your biggest breakthroughs will come not through force, but through faith-filled surrender and praise.
Tomorrow, go down against them. They will surely come up by the Ascent of Ziz, and you will find them at the end of the Wilderness of Jeruel. You will not need to fight in this battle. Position yourselves, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord, who is with you, O Judah and Jerusalem! Do not fear or be dismayed tomorrow go out against them, for the Lord is with you.”
2 Chron 20:16-17
6. Build Systems and Fortify What You Have
Jehoshaphat didn’t only focus on spiritual matters. He also strengthened his cities, appointed judges, and implemented systems of justice and governance (2 Chronicles 19:4–11). He understood the significance of leadership and administration.
Application Principle:
Vision without organizational systems leads to burnout. As the world evolves, so should your workflow, infrastructure, and decision-making processes. Whether you’re leading a team, a church, or your own brand, build solid systems that support a strong foundation, long-term sustainability, and clarity of vision.
History always seems to repeat itself. In many ways, we are living in a period of time similar to Jehoshaphat. The world is unstable, challenges are unexpected, and the masses are seeking leaders with strong character and who have values, morals, integrity, wisdom, courage and humility.
We all have the ability to be role models of leadership who:
Make wise decisions and live righteously
Align our lives with purpose
Empower others through education
Embrace feedback with humility
Stand firm in faith amdist fear
And build workflows and systems that serve with vision
Because in the end, leadership is not just about getting through the battle-it’s about helping others thrive on the other side of it.
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