
Valentine’s Day often highlights romance: flowers, gifts, candlelit dinners, and carefully curated moments, but scripture presents a deeper, more transformative understanding of love. The Bible does not describe love as fleeting emotion. It describes love as the very true nature of God.
“God is love.” 1 John 4:8
This means love is not merely something God does. It is who He is.

Love Begins with God
We love because He first loved us 1 John 4:19. Before we attempt to love a spouse, a friend, or even lead with integrity in business, we must first receive God’s love. His love is unwavering, unconditional, and faithful.

What Love Actually Looks Like
1 Corinthians 13 gives us the blueprint: “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.8 Love never fails.
Notice that love is described through action and character, not emotion.

The Cross: The Greatest Love Story
Jesus is the ultimate example of love. He came to bear our sins upon the Cross and in exchange we receive salvation and eternal life. The only way to God is through Jesus. His name carries power and authority. There is no other name that carries love, forgiveness, healing and peace. His grace and mercy in new every morning.
Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
John 15:13

Due to the pressures in the world, it’s challenging to override the stress that’s hitting families on all levels. The overall U.S. divorce rate is about 2.3–2.4 divorces per 1,000 people annually (2023 provisional data from CDC/NCHS). That translates to roughly 670,000+ divorces per year. Divorce rates have declined steadily over recent decades, reaching the lowest levels in about 50 years compared with the early 2000s and 1980s. (data based on Chat GPT)

Love in Every Season
The cross is the ultimate demonstration of sacrificial love. It reminds us that love gives, even when it costs.
Whether single, married, waiting, rebuilding, or content, your identity is not defined by your relationship status. You are already loved completely by God.
Valentine’s Day is not just about romance; it’s about reflecting the love we have first received.

Practical Ways to Reflect God’s Love
- Offer forgiveness
- Extend grace
- Serve quietly
- Encourage intentionally
- Choose patience over pride
When our love mirrors heaven, it shifts the environment in our homes, our leadership, and our influence to impact the world.
May Valentine’s Day be a reminder of God’s love and may your love be more than a sentiment or an emotion. Let your life be a reflection of the Bible lived out loud daily.
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Related Bible Verses
John 13:34-35
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
Romans 12:10
10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
John 15:9
9 “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.
John 3:16
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Deut 6:4-5
4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one 5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.
Eph 4:2
2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Psalm 33:4-5
For the word of the Lord is right and true;
he is faithful in all he does.
5 The Lord loves righteousness and justice;
the earth is full of his unfailing love.
Eph 5:2-6
2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. 3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.[a] 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.
1 Corth 13:6-7
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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