Going the Distance: Grace in the Pace

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Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses [who by faith have testified to the truth of God’s absolute faithfulness], stripping off every unnecessary weight and the sin which so easily and cleverly entangles us, let us run with endurance and active persistence the race that is set before us, [looking away from all that will distract us and] focusing our eyes on Jesus, who is the Author and Perfecter of faith [the first incentive for our belief and the One who brings our faith to maturity], who for the joy [of accomplishing the goal] set before Him endured the cross, disregarding the shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God [revealing His deity, His authority, and the completion of His work]. Just consider and meditate on Him who endured from sinners such bitter hostility against Himself [consider it all in comparison with your trials], so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Heb 12:1-3 (AMP)


When I was in junior high, I ran track. I was the second to the fastest runner in my school. I was a sprinter who ran the 50- and 100-yard dash, the 2020 relay, as well as the long jump and hurdles. One thing I noticed about the long-distance runners was that they had stamina and endurance. They paced themselves to be able to finish the race.

On the other hand, I would position my feet on the starter’s block while listening intently to the sound of the gun and push off the starter’s block to begin running. At times, one of the runners would jumpstart due to anticipation and all the runners would have to start over again.

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As I reflect on Heb 12, it is wise to release any baggage or distractions in this season and keep your eyes focused on Jesus. The world is heavy and it’s full of noise. We’re fighting opposition, oppression, weariness and spiritual warfare on every side. It will take stamina and endurance to keep moving. When you learn how to pace yourself, you’re able to overcome physical, mental, emotional and spiritual exhaustion. It’s necessary to slow down, rest and reflect when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

Some people want to push ahead and disregard stressful situations or circumstances. They ignore their feelings all together. You should be honest with your feelings, but do not let your feelings rule over your mental, emotional or spiritual well-being. Don’t allow the world to dictate how you should feel either. Suppressing your emotions is dangerous and extremely unhealthy. Finding a support system or a trusted friend to talk to will help you release toxic feelings.

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As we approach the holiday season, it’s important to take some time out to rest and focus on your priorities. We do not need to wait for the New Year for reflection. It’s important to honor God and rest in His presence regularly. Don’t allow the pressures of gathering with family wear you thin. Safeguard yourself from any energy drainers or negative Nancy’s.

In Colossian 1:11 it states, “Strengthened with all might according to His glorious power, unto all patience and longsuffering with joyfulness.”

The secret to having contentment amid long suffering is endurance and letting go of your fleshy desires. “But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.” James 1:4

Although Thanksgiving is a time of reflection of gratitude, it can also be a time of greed. We live in a spoiled and commercially motivated generation. Marketers have pushed Black Friday two weeks prior to Thanksgiving! Despite the financial struggles people are dealing with, their intention is to push more commercialism into the mindset of consumers.

Chasing after the next shiny new thing does not provide contentment. It only triggers you to chase after more stuff which fills you with a void. The Lord only quenches the desires of the heart. Surely, the Lord wants us to enjoy our life, and He will provide for us, but we should not desire material wealth, status and gain more than Jesus.

We are entering unstable territory. Economies are being shaken, and faith is being tested. It’s a wakeup call. Do not put your trust in earthly things. The Lord is pruning us from the material world to shed the weight and sin of greed, manipulation, control, selfishness, envy, jealousy, comparison and competition. He is also prompting us to make a definitive decision. “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” Matt 6:24 (NIV)

“Do not store up for yourselves [material] treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in and steal. for where your treasure is, there your heart [your wishes, your desires; that on which your life centers] will be also.” Matt 6:19-21 (AMP)


“Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is life not more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matt 6:25-34

When we release the stress of materialism, you can gain and embrace contentment. It’s having the ability to step out of the physical world and into the spiritual world. It’s not religion. It’s finding Jesus and having a direct relationship with Him.

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So, do not allow the pressures of the holiday season make you depressed. You may not have everything you want. You may be alone or grieving a loved one but open your heart to the presence of God. He is your comforter, protector and waymaker. These are not merely words. It’s the living truth because I’m a witness of His miraculous working power over my life. Everything that I’ve experienced has led me to this point and I will continue to run on with endurance – not to reach a destination but to embrace the continuous flow of God’s love and grace on this journey. Wherever you are on this journey – God will meet you right there. Ready, set, go!

I have seen something else under the sun:

The race is not to the swift
    or the battle to the strong,
nor does food come to the wise
    or wealth to the brilliant
    or favor to the learned;
but time and chance happen to them all.

Eccl 9:11

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Bible Meditations

Isaiah 40:31

Heb 10:36

James 1:2-4

Gal 6:9

Rom 5:3-5

Lam 3:22-24

Romans 2:7

James 1: 12-20

Rom 12:12

1 Corth 10:13

Rom 15:4-5

Rom 8:28

James 5:11

1 Corth 15:58

James 5:7

1 Pet 4:12

2 Tim 4:7

In the Reflection of Our Father: Celebrating the Quiet Strength of Fatherhood

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The divine role of a man in their household has been watered down by society. Due to the breakdown in the family that has been a gradual process over decades, men have lost their identity, function and position in the family. The established role that the Lord created for men has become blurred lines in relation to the roles between husband and wife.

In the Garden of Eden, a man was created in His own image. In the image of God, He created him; male and female He created them. Gen 1:27 A woman was created as a helpmate. Gen 1:20-24

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“Let him have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” Gen 1:26

The Lord established the man to be the head of the household. He was designed to lead with Godly wisdom, authority and integrity. He was not created to take advantage of his own strength and power to dominate but to lead with holiness, authority and dominion.

When women began to work outside of the home, it shifted the whole dynamics of the family structure and foundation. There was a constant power struggle between the husband and wife which applied pressure on the family not to mention societal and economic pressures. Not only was there a power struggle, but there was an identity crisis, character flaws and a lack of Biblical values and principles established to build a strong foundation. With the rise of inflation, it’s nearly impossible to have only one source of income in the household. This has added financial conflicts, tension, anxiety and increased stress levels in the family.

In Esphesian 5:25-27, it states, “25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

In an act of obedience and commitment, the foundation established by a strong family result in raising up disciplined and respectful children.

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“Train up a child in which way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Prov 22:6

The importance of instruction, discipline, obedience and guidance in raising a child in their early stages of life reflects the Lord’s natural and spiritual design and intentions for the family.

The role of a father is one of great sacrifice and dedication to the family. He has great responsibility and many heavy burdens that should be released to the Lord to carry – not only financially but mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.

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As we honor Father’s Day, may we celebrate the strength and endurance of the men who lead with dignity, wisdom and strength in a world that is constantly changing and with the demands and pressures of life that are fierce to undertake.

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Prayer for Our Fathers

For the fathers who have lost children, may the Lord comfort and strengthen you in your time of grief. May you receive courage, support and encouragement to fill the pain and void in your life.


May you walk with the hand of the Father who guides every step you take and every decision you make. May you desire a deeper relationship with the Lord to overcome every challenge, opposition or temptation that you face. May the hand of God shield and protect you and your family from any harm or danger as you walk in faith and lead with integrity, courage and tenacity in every area- family, business and life.. With trust and assurance, may you receive the provision and abundant blessings of peace, rest and grace to sustain you.

In Jesus Name. Amen.

Related Bible Verses

Eph 6:1-4

Eph 3:17-19

Exodus 20:12

Psalm 103:13

Luke 15:18-20

Prov 22:6

Prov 23:24

Prov 20:7

The Leadership Series: Leading through Uncertainty | The Life and Legacy of King Jehoshaphat

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Jehoshaphat was the fourth king of Judah and reigned for 25 years (approximately from 870–848 BC). He was the son of King Asa and is remembered as one of Judah’s more righteous and reform-minded rulers. His leadership was characterized by religious revival, military readiness, and poorly aligned alliances.

King Jehoshaphat was diligently devoted to God and did not seek after Baal or idol worship. The Lord established him as the leader of Judah, and he was given riches and honor in abundance. He took delight in honoring the Lord and removed all the wooden images and idolatry from Judah. (2 Chron 17:1-6)

He was heavily dependent on God to lead him through crisis. He called for national prayer and fast when a coalition of armies came against him.

“We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”

2 Chronicles 20:12

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King Jehoshaphat was a strategic leader who strengthened Judah by building fortified cities and maintaining a strong army and establishing a system of judges rooted in justice and the fear of the Lord. 2 Chron 19:4-11

He also encouraged peace during a time of division, aiming to unify God’s people. His greatest mistake was building alliances with ungodly and wicked kings of Israel – King Ahab and Ahaziah which led to a failed trading excursion where all their work and ships were wrecked by the hand of God.

In times of uncertainty that we’re experiencing today, we can draw from the timeless lessons of Jehoshaphat—whether in business, ministry, or personal development there are nuggets of wisdom to glean from in his life and legacy.

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Life and Legacy

Jehoshaphat left behind a bilateral legacy: a godly king who led spiritual revival and trusted God in crisis, but who compromised his faith in God by partnering with ungodly leaders. He is commended for walking in the ways of the Lord and striving to lead Judah in righteousness despite his poor choices.

His heart was devoted to the ways of the Lord…”

2 Chronicles 17:6

What can we learn from Jehoshaphat?

Five Lessons and Application Principles

  1. Lesson in Poor Judgment and Discernment

Despite being a godly man, Jehoshaphat sometimes displayed poor discernment in choosing partners, seemingly prioritizing unity or prosperity over righteousness.

2. Prioritize Alignment with God’s Vision

One of Jehoshaphat’s first moves as king was a spiritual one: he set his heart to seek the Lord. He didn’t begin with a political agenda, a marketing campaign, or a military strategy—he began by aligning his leadership with divine purpose.

Application Principle:

In a world filled with noise, trends, competition and pressure to chase quick wins, true leadership begins with clarity of purpose. Whether you’re leading your family, a business, a nonprofit, or a creative project, take time to anchor your mission.

Are my values aligned with something greater than success? Am I leading with integrity, vision, and spiritual clarity?

“The Lord was with Jehoshaphat because he followed the ways of his father David before him. He did not consult the Baals but sought the God of his father.”

2 Chronicles 17:3–4

3. Invest in Education and Empowerment

Jehoshaphat did something extraordinary: he sent out teachers to every city in Judah to instruct the people in the ways of God (2 Chronicles 17:7–9). He understood that he could not complete this task alone. He also understood that training well-informed and spiritually rooted people would lead to a strong kingdom mindset. There is strength in numbers.

Application Principle:

Great leaders don’t hoard knowledge- they cultivate and nurture it in others. A culture of empowerment leads to resilience and strength in uncertain times.

In your organization or community, how are you empowering others to grow? Are you mentoring, teaching, or creating systems that promote continuous learning?


4. Be Willing to Seek Counsel and Correction

One of Jehoshaphat’s leadership flaws was his alliance with King Ahab of Israel. When he was rebuked by the prophet Jehu (2 Chronicles 19:2–3), instead of resisting correction, Jehoshaphat humbled himself and made changes.

Application Principle:

Mistakes often happen, but wise leaders seek feedback and make adjustments. It’s ok to make mistakes. It’s one of our greatest teachers, however it’s important to surround yourself with people who will speak the truth—even when it’s uncomfortable. And when the truth hits hard, don’t shrink instead dissect it, reflect on it, embrace it and grow.


5. Lead with Faith and Loose Fear

Jehoshaphat prayed and fasted then sent worshippers ahead of the army—praising God in advance of the battle. God fought for Judah, and they experienced a miraculous victory.

Application Principle:

Due to the current instability in these times—economic shifts, technological disruption, social, political and cultural changes, lead with faith. Don’t rush into battle without clarity. Take time to pause, reflect, pray, and strategize. Sometimes, your biggest breakthroughs will come not through force, but through faith-filled surrender and praise.

Tomorrow, go down against them.
They will surely come up by the Ascent of Ziz,
and you will find them at the end of the Wilderness of Jeruel.
You will not need to fight in this battle.
Position yourselves, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord,
who is with you, O Judah and Jerusalem!
Do not fear or be dismayed tomorrow
go out against them, for the Lord is with you.”

2 Chron 20:16-17

6. Build Systems and Fortify What You Have

Jehoshaphat didn’t only focus on spiritual matters. He also strengthened his cities, appointed judges, and implemented systems of justice and governance (2 Chronicles 19:4–11). He understood the significance of leadership and administration.

Application Principle:

Vision without organizational systems leads to burnout. As the world evolves, so should your workflow, infrastructure, and decision-making processes. Whether you’re leading a team, a church, or your own brand, build solid systems that support a strong foundation, long-term sustainability, and clarity of vision.


History always seems to repeat itself. In many ways, we are living in a period of time similar to Jehoshaphat. The world is unstable, challenges are unexpected, and the masses are seeking leaders with strong character and who have values, morals, integrity, wisdom, courage and humility.

We all have the ability to be role models of leadership who:

  • Make wise decisions and live righteously
  • Align our lives with purpose
  • Empower others through education
  • Embrace feedback with humility
  • Stand firm in faith amdist fear
  • And build workflows and systems that serve with vision

Because in the end, leadership is not just about getting through the battle-it’s about helping others thrive on the other side of it.


This concludes the leadership series. I hope you enjoyed the series and please share with a friend or associate who would benefit from the message. Please feel free to leave your comments or feedback below.

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