Going the Distance: Grace in the Pace

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Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses [who by faith have testified to the truth of God’s absolute faithfulness], stripping off every unnecessary weight and the sin which so easily and cleverly entangles us, let us run with endurance and active persistence the race that is set before us, [looking away from all that will distract us and] focusing our eyes on Jesus, who is the Author and Perfecter of faith [the first incentive for our belief and the One who brings our faith to maturity], who for the joy [of accomplishing the goal] set before Him endured the cross, disregarding the shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God [revealing His deity, His authority, and the completion of His work]. Just consider and meditate on Him who endured from sinners such bitter hostility against Himself [consider it all in comparison with your trials], so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Heb 12:1-3 (AMP)


When I was in junior high, I ran track. I was the second to the fastest runner in my school. I was a sprinter who ran the 50- and 100-yard dash, the 2020 relay, as well as the long jump and hurdles. One thing I noticed about the long-distance runners was that they had stamina and endurance. They paced themselves to be able to finish the race.

On the other hand, I would position my feet on the starter’s block while listening intently to the sound of the gun and push off the starter’s block to begin running. At times, one of the runners would jumpstart due to anticipation and all the runners would have to start over again.

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As I reflect on Heb 12, it is wise to release any baggage or distractions in this season and keep your eyes focused on Jesus. The world is heavy and it’s full of noise. We’re fighting opposition, oppression, weariness and spiritual warfare on every side. It will take stamina and endurance to keep moving. When you learn how to pace yourself, you’re able to overcome physical, mental, emotional and spiritual exhaustion. It’s necessary to slow down, rest and reflect when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

Some people want to push ahead and disregard stressful situations or circumstances. They ignore their feelings all together. You should be honest with your feelings, but do not let your feelings rule over your mental, emotional or spiritual well-being. Don’t allow the world to dictate how you should feel either. Suppressing your emotions is dangerous and extremely unhealthy. Finding a support system or a trusted friend to talk to will help you release toxic feelings.

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As we approach the holiday season, it’s important to take some time out to rest and focus on your priorities. We do not need to wait for the New Year for reflection. It’s important to honor God and rest in His presence regularly. Don’t allow the pressures of gathering with family wear you thin. Safeguard yourself from any energy drainers or negative Nancy’s.

In Colossian 1:11 it states, “Strengthened with all might according to His glorious power, unto all patience and longsuffering with joyfulness.”

The secret to having contentment amid long suffering is endurance and letting go of your fleshy desires. “But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.” James 1:4

Although Thanksgiving is a time of reflection of gratitude, it can also be a time of greed. We live in a spoiled and commercially motivated generation. Marketers have pushed Black Friday two weeks prior to Thanksgiving! Despite the financial struggles people are dealing with, their intention is to push more commercialism into the mindset of consumers.

Chasing after the next shiny new thing does not provide contentment. It only triggers you to chase after more stuff which fills you with a void. The Lord only quenches the desires of the heart. Surely, the Lord wants us to enjoy our life, and He will provide for us, but we should not desire material wealth, status and gain more than Jesus.

We are entering unstable territory. Economies are being shaken, and faith is being tested. It’s a wakeup call. Do not put your trust in earthly things. The Lord is pruning us from the material world to shed the weight and sin of greed, manipulation, control, selfishness, envy, jealousy, comparison and competition. He is also prompting us to make a definitive decision. “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” Matt 6:24 (NIV)

“Do not store up for yourselves [material] treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in and steal. for where your treasure is, there your heart [your wishes, your desires; that on which your life centers] will be also.” Matt 6:19-21 (AMP)


“Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is life not more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matt 6:25-34

When we release the stress of materialism, you can gain and embrace contentment. It’s having the ability to step out of the physical world and into the spiritual world. It’s not religion. It’s finding Jesus and having a direct relationship with Him.

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So, do not allow the pressures of the holiday season make you depressed. You may not have everything you want. You may be alone or grieving a loved one but open your heart to the presence of God. He is your comforter, protector and waymaker. These are not merely words. It’s the living truth because I’m a witness of His miraculous working power over my life. Everything that I’ve experienced has led me to this point and I will continue to run on with endurance – not to reach a destination but to embrace the continuous flow of God’s love and grace on this journey. Wherever you are on this journey – God will meet you right there. Ready, set, go!

I have seen something else under the sun:

The race is not to the swift
    or the battle to the strong,
nor does food come to the wise
    or wealth to the brilliant
    or favor to the learned;
but time and chance happen to them all.

Eccl 9:11

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Bible Meditations

Isaiah 40:31

Heb 10:36

James 1:2-4

Gal 6:9

Rom 5:3-5

Lam 3:22-24

Romans 2:7

James 1: 12-20

Rom 12:12

1 Corth 10:13

Rom 15:4-5

Rom 8:28

James 5:11

1 Corth 15:58

James 5:7

1 Pet 4:12

2 Tim 4:7

How to Survive Hard Times: Three Keys to Overcoming Adversity in Tumultuous Times

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Faith-based survival strategies and coping skills for life’s toughest seasons

We’re living in chaotic times that’s full of distractions and overwhelming challenges. The world is noisy, and everything is competing for our attention. We are pulled in several different directions, and time seems to be speeding up and things are rapidly changing. Every day, there are news reports unfolding and we must reclaim our peace to stay focused. How do you keep your peace in such a chaotic world? You may be dealing with health issues, a troubled teenager, a disjointed marriage, unemployment, a sour relationship, isolation or loneliness, or grief of a loved one- the list is endless.

With everything unraveling so quickly, it’s very easy to lose hope. When you lose hope, you are in danger of losing your faith and once you lose your faith, you lose your peace. When you build your faith on a firm foundation, it’s hard to lose hope because you know and understand the infinite power of God working in your life. He established the beginning from the end, and He will be faithful to complete every word, covenant and promise. He is not conditional to circumstances. He is unmovable and unshakeable.

When you have established history with the creator, you can reflect on every devastating or traumatic experience He brought you through so you can rely and rest in faith. Through every trial, you develop courage and peace that surpasses all understanding. Phil 4:7

We are fighting against so many spiritual and natural forces in life. We must be aware of the strategic attacks forged against us and be mindful of how to sustain a level mind under enormous societal and economic pressures.

Here are three main survival skills to focus on when facing opposition.

  1. Adaptability

Changes in life are inevitable. We will all deal with unexpected changes and major life events whether it be good or bad but we must remain adaptable to the situation or event. Adaptability is being able to adapt or contend with a certain climate or condition. It’s the ability to be content in uncomfortable conditions or circumstances. The apostle Paul stated in Phil 4:11-13, “I learned to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound; everywhere and in all things, I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and suffer need. I can do all things in Christ which strengthens me.

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Adaptability does not mean conformity. You’re not in agreement with the circumstance, attitude or practices, but you can adjust using your critical thinking skills, emotional maturity, and intellectual ability instead of accepting the situation at face value.

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Adaptability also does not mean flexibility. Flexibility provides a variety of options or choices. It is the ability to bend or shift at moment’s notice, however flexibility requires adaptability because you must shift to changes quickly and then adapt to those changes.

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2. Resilience

Resilience is the process to adjust or recover from a crisis or major life change whether illness, divorce, death of a loved one, marriage, new birth or any other life changing event. When you’re resilient, you have the power to bend and contort under extreme pressure. You may be compressed or stretched way beyond your capacity that you didn’t think you would be able to handle or overcome.

Resilience requires inner strength and mental restraint. Self-discipline and self-control are two components where you will be tested under fire. Do you have the resilience to keep going despite what it looks like? Faith is the source where resilience is birthed.

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Faith is the evidence of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.

And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Therefore, I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then he is strong.

2 Corth 12:9-10

10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10

10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong. 2 Corth 12:10

The Lord is omniscient, omnipresent and omnipotent. He is everywhere all at once. Take that in for a moment…. Secondly, He is all-knowing. For example, He knows exactly every strand of hair on your head! Not just your head but everyone on this earth!!! That is just how detailed the Father is! It baffles me when I think about the unlimited power and presence of God. When you’re able to grasp those characteristics of the Father, you will not fear the terror by night or the arrow that flies by day. Psalm 91

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3. Patience

One of the fruits of the spirit requires patience. It’s not in our timing but in God’s divine timing. We live in a fast-food society where people want quick fixes, quick results, fast money, just everything done fast! It’s a hustle culture that has no patience. Road rage, burnout, just everything done with momentum. God is still. God is patient. You can only hear the Lord in a calm, still voice. Prayers need to marinate. There is obedience in waiting. There is training in the waiting. Character is being built in the waiting. Strength and endurance is established in the waiting so don’t rush the waiting process. Embrace it.

You may feel that God doesn’t hear your prayers but He will answer every prayer on His timeline so don’t grow weary in well doing for in due season you will reap if you faint not. Gal 6:9

Be still and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. Psalm 46:10

The Lord is sovereign and just. He does not fail. He holds all power in His hands. Although we will face uncertainty, calamity and chaos in this world, Abba Father is in control and will be magnified and glorified upon the earth. Do not fear. Put your trust in Him.


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Additional Bible Verses

Matt 6:25-30 31-34

Matt 7:24-27

Mark 4:39

Matt 14: 22-33

Matt 6:33

Matt 24

Bible Verses on Contentment

1 Tim 6:6-7

Heb 13:5

Phil 4:11-13

Bible Verses on Resilience

2 Corth 12:10

Bible Verses on Adaptability

Rom 12:2

1 Corth 9:22

Bible Verses on Patience

Rom 12:12

Gal 6:9

James 5:7-8

Col 1:11

Prov 16:32

2 Peter 3:9

1 Corth 13:4

Psalm 37:7

In the Reflection of Our Father: Celebrating the Quiet Strength of Fatherhood

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The divine role of a man in their household has been watered down by society. Due to the breakdown in the family that has been a gradual process over decades, men have lost their identity, function and position in the family. The established role that the Lord created for men has become blurred lines in relation to the roles between husband and wife.

In the Garden of Eden, a man was created in His own image. In the image of God, He created him; male and female He created them. Gen 1:27 A woman was created as a helpmate. Gen 1:20-24

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“Let him have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” Gen 1:26

The Lord established the man to be the head of the household. He was designed to lead with Godly wisdom, authority and integrity. He was not created to take advantage of his own strength and power to dominate but to lead with holiness, authority and dominion.

When women began to work outside of the home, it shifted the whole dynamics of the family structure and foundation. There was a constant power struggle between the husband and wife which applied pressure on the family not to mention societal and economic pressures. Not only was there a power struggle, but there was an identity crisis, character flaws and a lack of Biblical values and principles established to build a strong foundation. With the rise of inflation, it’s nearly impossible to have only one source of income in the household. This has added financial conflicts, tension, anxiety and increased stress levels in the family.

In Esphesian 5:25-27, it states, “25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

In an act of obedience and commitment, the foundation established by a strong family result in raising up disciplined and respectful children.

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“Train up a child in which way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Prov 22:6

The importance of instruction, discipline, obedience and guidance in raising a child in their early stages of life reflects the Lord’s natural and spiritual design and intentions for the family.

The role of a father is one of great sacrifice and dedication to the family. He has great responsibility and many heavy burdens that should be released to the Lord to carry – not only financially but mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.

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As we honor Father’s Day, may we celebrate the strength and endurance of the men who lead with dignity, wisdom and strength in a world that is constantly changing and with the demands and pressures of life that are fierce to undertake.

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Prayer for Our Fathers

For the fathers who have lost children, may the Lord comfort and strengthen you in your time of grief. May you receive courage, support and encouragement to fill the pain and void in your life.


May you walk with the hand of the Father who guides every step you take and every decision you make. May you desire a deeper relationship with the Lord to overcome every challenge, opposition or temptation that you face. May the hand of God shield and protect you and your family from any harm or danger as you walk in faith and lead with integrity, courage and tenacity in every area- family, business and life.. With trust and assurance, may you receive the provision and abundant blessings of peace, rest and grace to sustain you.

In Jesus Name. Amen.

Related Bible Verses

Eph 6:1-4

Eph 3:17-19

Exodus 20:12

Psalm 103:13

Luke 15:18-20

Prov 22:6

Prov 23:24

Prov 20:7